Yet Another Site I Will Rarely If Ever Use

But Then Again, I Said That About Twitter. Ahem.

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http://feedistconfessions.tumblr.com/post/93019598400/i-have-a-new-boyfriend-hes-an-old-friend-of

charonsaide:

feedistconfessions:

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I have a new boyfriend. He’s an old friend of mine. It’s my first time dating someone who was a friend first. Lots of things feel VERY VERY different from how they usually feel when I’m in love. It’s scaring me.

But the part that’s pertinent here is that I’m really struggling with my feedism…

Fat girls into fattening fat guys.  I couldn’t tell, though, whether she really wants to fatten up IRL.

My FWB likes to fantasize about fattening up, but has no desire to make it a lifestyle.  In fact, she’s trying to LOSE weight.  Weird thing is, though, I’m getting hot thinking about her working out and becoming fit and slim.

Where did that come from???

Hi! I actually posted this. (I guess I feel more comfortable coming out now.)

Do I want to gain IRL? It’s tricky. I don’t think I do, because I’ve never gotten off on all the weight I’ve gained in the past (over 100 lbs over a decade & a half), but I’ve also been informed it’s VERY different when you’re intentionally gaining for a feeder than accidentally gaining just because life. So, yeah. Uncertain. I can say my fantasies run towards the bigger the better but I’m pretty sure that even if I enjoyed gaining IRL there would probably be a point where the returns would diminish too much. (or maybe not? *shrug*)

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    2014
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tofugoddess:

little things that help ease symptoms of depression:

  • turn the lights on and open a window
  • eat something healthy and drink ice cold water
  • find a comforting album to listen to whenever things get bad
  • take a long, relaxing bath
  • do yourself up in full make up and hair
  • be around people, even if you don’t think it will help
  • watch something funny on netflix
  • wear your favorite/most comfortable outfit
  • immerse yourself in a hobby like drawing
  • lose yourself in a really good book or movie

(via growingtoofat)

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    2014
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levanna:

eradicatedelicacy:

reallifescomedyrelief:

viforcontrol:

beautifuloutlier:

gwydtheunusual:

too—weird-to-live:

zafojones:

Circus Tree: Six individual sycamore trees were shaped, bent, and braided to form this.

how the hell do you bend and braid a tree

Actually pretty easy. Trees don’t reject tissue from other trees in the same family. You bend the tree to another tree when it is a sapling, scrape off the bark on both trees where they touch, add some damp sphagnum moss around them to keep everything slightly moist and bind them together. Then wait a few years- The trees will have grown together. You can use a similar technique to graft a lemon branch or a lime branch or even both- onto an orange tree and have one tree that has all three fruits.Frankentrees.

As a biologist I can clearly state that plants are fucking weird and you should probably be slightly afraid of them.

On that note! At the university (UBC) located in town, the Agriculture students were told by their teacher that a tree flipped upside down would die. So they took an excavator and flipped the tree upside down. And it’s still growing. But the branches are now the roots, and the roots are now these super gnarly looking branches. Be afraid.

But Vi, how can you mention that and NOT post a picture? D:

[source]

Tree apocalypse.

Science.

levanna:

eradicatedelicacy:

reallifescomedyrelief:

viforcontrol:

beautifuloutlier:

gwydtheunusual:

too—weird-to-live:

zafojones:

Circus Tree: Six individual sycamore trees were shaped, bent, and braided to form this.

how the hell do you bend and braid a tree

Actually pretty easy. Trees don’t reject tissue from other trees in the same family. You bend the tree to another tree when it is a sapling, scrape off the bark on both trees where they touch, add some damp sphagnum moss around them to keep everything slightly moist and bind them together. 
Then wait a few years- The trees will have grown together. 

You can use a similar technique to graft a lemon branch or a lime branch or even both- onto an orange tree and have one tree that has all three fruits.

Frankentrees.

As a biologist I can clearly state that plants are fucking weird and you should probably be slightly afraid of them.

On that note! At the university (UBC) located in town, the Agriculture students were told by their teacher that a tree flipped upside down would die. So they took an excavator and flipped the tree upside down. And it’s still growing. But the branches are now the roots, and the roots are now these super gnarly looking branches. Be afraid.

But Vi, how can you mention that and NOT post a picture? D:

image

[source]

Tree apocalypse.

Science.

(via growingtoofat)

  • 29th July
    2014
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tersaudades:

humansofnewyork:

"Are you lonely?""It’s been a lifetime of loneliness. I decided early on that I better get used to it. I go to movies by myself. If the movie theater is completely empty, I’m even happier. I learned early on that if I wanted to go to restaurants, I better learn to go by myself. One benefit to being big is that people don’t bother you. I’m shocked that you came up to me. Nobody’s ever done that. When I started to go to therapy, it took me several sessions before I even spoke a word. I’d just sit there and cry. And honestly, you caught me on a tough day. I was sitting here feeling really bad about myself. Because I went to the doctor today, and I was sure that I’d lost weight. But I’d gained some."

Every time I see this picture and read this caption I just burst into hot tears without thinking about it. I’ve never seen somebody articulate that particular and exquisite sadness like this. I’ve never wanted to hug a stranger so badly before.

tersaudades:

humansofnewyork:

"Are you lonely?"
"It’s been a lifetime of loneliness. I decided early on that I better get used to it. I go to movies by myself. If the movie theater is completely empty, I’m even happier. I learned early on that if I wanted to go to restaurants, I better learn to go by myself. One benefit to being big is that people don’t bother you. I’m shocked that you came up to me. Nobody’s ever done that. When I started to go to therapy, it took me several sessions before I even spoke a word. I’d just sit there and cry. And honestly, you caught me on a tough day. I was sitting here feeling really bad about myself. Because I went to the doctor today, and I was sure that I’d lost weight. But I’d gained some."

Every time I see this picture and read this caption I just burst into hot tears without thinking about it. I’ve never seen somebody articulate that particular and exquisite sadness like this. I’ve never wanted to hug a stranger so badly before.

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excuse me but how are you not a very famous writer artist person?!

Asked by: Anonymous

beautyinthebellejar:

:) <3

I ask my sweetie this on a regular basis, as well. Srlsy. If you’d read his works, you’d understand.

I have to admit, I think he’s one of the best writers I’ve ever read. And I’m not saying that because I’m in love with him. Hell, I fell in love with him BECAUSE of his writing.

But, yeah, I’ve seen published books that aren’t as good as his stuff.

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    2014
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newsweek:

A group of American Quakers are operating what they call a “new underground railroad” to help a few LGBT Ugandans flee their country, where a recent law imposes harsh penalties for homosexuality. The Friends New Underground Railroad (FNUR), based in Washington state, sees itself as continuing the work of Quakers who historically helped slaves escape the American South.
As of this Monday, they say they have worked with unnamed Ugandan “conductors” to fund and coordinate passage out of the country for 107 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Ugandans, nine of whom have reached Sweden, while several dozen others are “being processed for asylum status in countries around the world,” according to the group’s FAQ page.
American Quakers are Running an ‘Underground Railroad’ to Help LGBT Ugandans Flee

How does one help out with this?

newsweek:

A group of American Quakers are operating what they call a “new underground railroad” to help a few LGBT Ugandans flee their country, where a recent law imposes harsh penalties for homosexuality. The Friends New Underground Railroad (FNUR), based in Washington state, sees itself as continuing the work of Quakers who historically helped slaves escape the American South.

As of this Monday, they say they have worked with unnamed Ugandan “conductors” to fund and coordinate passage out of the country for 107 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Ugandans, nine of whom have reached Sweden, while several dozen others are “being processed for asylum status in countries around the world,” according to the group’s FAQ page.

American Quakers are Running an ‘Underground Railroad’ to Help LGBT Ugandans Flee

How does one help out with this?

(via chickgonebad)

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thecsph:

We advocate for open communication in partner sex! Gloves are a great way to play safely.

Ok, my ex&#8217;s name was Adam. This is extra hilarious.

thecsph:

We advocate for open communication in partner sex! Gloves are a great way to play safely.

Ok, my ex’s name was Adam. This is extra hilarious.

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plumpfrostingprince:

kwartha:

chocochubbies:

Sometimes a guy is caught by a civilization of nubile, comely young men who feed you until you can’t take anymore, but how can your resist when they offer you one more bite?

hm… possibilities. ;)

So hot

Didn&#8217;t like it w/o the text, but with it? Pretty damn hot.

plumpfrostingprince:

kwartha:

chocochubbies:

Sometimes a guy is caught by a civilization of nubile, comely young men who feed you until you can’t take anymore, but how can your resist when they offer you one more bite?

hm… possibilities. ;)

So hot

Didn’t like it w/o the text, but with it? Pretty damn hot.